A good introduction does all the work for you.
In a world where strangers dance together under the burning moonlight, making your introduction is everything.
Impressions matter, in every area of life. That first moment you say to someone ‘hi’ can be filled with so much internal panic some, myself included, can stumble over our own words. I am the queen of tongue tied trips when asked to make myself known to the unknown. It can be stressful, right? Well i’m here to tell you just how to get it right and be your own personal conductor in the symphony of an unforgettable night.
The reason I include so many of my interests throughout my website is because there is no better ice breaker than a mutual passion for something. The second a fellow formula one fan gets in touch we are instantly flying, soaring through communications like a pair of doves eager to get back to the nest for some more vigorous… discussion. Commonality is a great spark to run with and light the torch on your new found friendship. But it doesn’t mean that two very different people won’t also light quite a heated fire in the hearth. I take as much joy in the unknown as I do the familiar. An eager discoverer who wants to see the world through as many lenses as possible in whatever a short time I am blessed with. So if you are someone who doesn’t see your interests reflected, that just means i’ve not discovered them yet. Your introduction has the chance to capture my interest quite vehemently, if you should want it. Whether you share an interest or want to introduce me to yours then listen closely and see how quickly you could turn your fantasy into reality at the click of a button.
Let’s start with the basics shall we! As you may be aware you have a really good idea of who I am which provides you with the perfect opening. It’s so simple. Who are you? That’s right, that’s all you need to do when opening your introduction. I love the excitable mystery that swirls around me when I get a notification that someone has sent me an email… I’m dying to find out who wants me in every which way imaginable. The budding excitement I get when I open it up and dive in to discover which daring gentleman has taken the plunge into my very warm and wet waters feeds my soul. I want to know you. I want to see who you are and celebrate who you are, all you need to do is tell me who you are. What do you enjoy? What wakes you up on a dull day? What makes you audibly stand up with passion and knowledge. If there is no common connection then build your own by sharing the things you love, with me.
A little splash of personality goes a long way.
The next step once you’ve introduced yourself is the more professional aspect to a very professional email. The details.
You’ve read my website. You may even have seen me on social media. You know exactly what you have in mind because it’s all you’ve been able to think about for days. Don’t be shy, openness and to the point when it comes to the details is really key. Make sure to include a where, a when and a what. We both know the who now don’t we. If the where is undecided then don’t worry at all. I am a font of restaurant/hotel knowledge and more than happy to offer suggestions just let me know and if there is a specific vibe you are aiming for… well I always deliver.
Politeness and respect is the currency of our virtual communications. If you lead with those you are guaranteed to be the man with the golden ticket.
Imagine you are about to take the penalty of your life. Your team is in the final, the biggest final. The goal is open in front of you and there is nothing but riotous applause serenading your senses. With this one kick you could be basking in the light of a glorious Winter. Your hands itch with the prospect of victory. Take a deep breath and fire…. off that email.
It’s as easy as that. And if all my sports talk didn’t get you excited… maybe my poetic literature loving heart will be the one singing to you through the screen. Pleasure is everywhere, I hope that this little map will help you find it. Maybe you would like to show me the way to undiscovered treasure? The possibilities are quite literally, edlesss.
A good introduction does all the work for you. It makes me want to meet you in equal measure which almost always equates to some very steamy sexual tension just ready to be explored. If you think of winter as a generally cold place to be, I am more than ready to show you just how hot this Winter can be.
