Love languages, erotic encounters and how to pull off the perfect date.
I know better than most that this can be daunting. Winter Woods may come across all confidence and mystery, yet at the true heart of it I am a shy little thing. You may wonder how I overcame that to be the chatty, beguiling and seemingly brimming with confidence woman I am today. I’ve always been a fan of the ‘fake it until you make it’ method. Whenever I have to do something that seems beyond me, I pull on my sexiest barely there knickers, paint my lips the deepest shade of red and smile with my whole face until I feel it. And I will feel it.
This is why I take great care when meeting new lovers. Making sure they are comfortable and feel seen wholly, with my undivided attention. It may have been many years since I felt that nervous butterfly flapping it’s wings against my ribcage so hard it sewed my mouth shut. But I remember it well. Nerves are only natural when meeting someone for the first time, let alone bearing yourself body and soul with them in an unflinching tableau of the most clandestine kind. It is a real joy of mine, making new lovers comfortable enough that they then can free their true selves from any anxiety and truly find bliss in whatever way they desire.
Every erotic encounter begins with good communication. An honest meeting of minds, where nothing is too shameful to discuss and where every word whispered is held in confidence. Trust is so important. You and I need to trust one another and that is why being warm and open is the key. When you make contact, don’t worry about the things that may make you anxious. Meeting a companion is a freeing experience when approached in the right way. This is an opportunity for you and I to craft a memory from beginning to end, with no strings or hang ups. No expectations or judgement. A work of true beauty, built on the foundations of good communication.
If you know your love language it is a great way to lay the groundwork. Are you stimulated by words of affirmation? Do you need me to sing into your soul with my lips and tongue. Are acts of service your thing? I know many a submissive in my little black book definitely fall into this category. Perhaps quality time is your prerogative and a pre private time date is required to coax you out. If you are like me then gifts are your love language, you adore to receive them but nothing beats the rush of endorphins you get when seeing someone open up a present you got, just for them. I know a few lovers who appreciate my little art works for them, one has demanded I bequeath my own private hobby to them should I shuffle off this mortal realm first. Or are you a lover of the classic love language, physical touch? I promise to be gentle, to a point. Is there anything better than feeling someone’s warmth beneath your fingers in slow languide movements. That feeling of closeness, we all want it don’t we. What would life be without it.
These are all things to consider when planning the perfect date. When you reach out, the more information about what you want, the better. Keeping things brief can lead to confusion. This is after all a chance to build your ideal moment. What shape does it take? Where do you want to go and what do you want to do? Are you a lover or fast and deep? What love language sends your head and heart into a frenzy? If this was the end the world and your last date you could ever go on… What would it be?
Because I want to design that with you.
No strings attached is a magical concept. Men think it belongs to them alas courtesans mastered it first. And with the annals of history, from all the ladies of the night that walked before us. We now exist within a time where there is no shame in it. You can get what you want, passionately and with vigour.
All you have to do is ask.
